Conversations 101: Topics That Get Women Excited

If you want to know what to talk about with a girl so you will TURN HER ON and she will either THROW herself at you, or virtually guarantee that you could go for the kiss (or more) and score with her, then it’s essential that you learn this easy trick to say exactly what women like to hear.

Just How Much Does “Fun” Turn Women On?

According to hundreds of women surveyed, “a man with a good sense of humour” is among the top ten qualities women find most attractive in a man. Read through almost any hot woman’s profile on Facebook or Online Dating sites and you’ll likely find that the word “fun” appears a LOT.

You can really notice just how powerful fun is by looking around a club and noticing who all the girls crowd around (the most FUN guys!)

In other words, being fun is POWERFUL stuff for attracting women.

When it comes to escalating sexually with a woman, being fun is CRUCIAL. Fun guys who can make women laugh… excite them… and be playful, are able to get away with almost any sexual advance because they bring out the fun and sexy side of a girl.

Avoid Boring Conversation Topics

On the other hand, if you talk about very serious stuff when you meet a woman, then you’re going to bring out that serious, no-fun side of her. If she’s in a serious mood, then chances are you ain’t gettin’ no play!

OR she will lose interest in you and look for a guy who loves to have fun… like me

These are serious topics you should avoid:

• Death
• Deep philosophical conversations
• Politics
• Problems in your life or hers

When women are out being social, they’re out to escape from all that heavy stuff. So don’t bring it up.

What To Talk With a Girl About

To make your conversation more fun in a way that turns women on, use “fun talk” to bring up more exciting conversation topics.

For example, lead the conversation to things that are FUN or EXCITING or talk about getting into ADVENTURES and CELEBRATING.

Like this:

• “What are you CELEBRATING tonight?”
• “Have you been getting into any ADVENTURES tonight?”
• “Anything EXCITING happening tonight?”
• “Let’s get this PARTY started!”

Just talking about these things begins to bring out the adventurous side in women. This is more interesting than talking about the weather, and these topics often lead into getting together for social events.

Remember to say it PASSIONATELY. Put emphasis on the fun words and say it with enthusiasm because your passion will be felt, and transferred to her if you are energetic about it.

Sometimes when the conversation starts moving towards a serious topic, it’s a good idea to gently steer the conversation in a more positive direction so everyone can keep having fun. You can “snip the thread” by saying, “So anyways… What kind of FUN stuff do you have planned tonight?” (or any of the examples I listed above.)

If you come across a girl who is not interested in your fun-loving attitude for some reason (she had a bad day? she’s tired? who knows!) just remember this:

No one is holding a gun to your head to keep talking to her.
You can walk away at any time.

Smile and politely exit by saying, “I’ve got to be moving on. Talk to you later!” then you can go find another hot girl who loves your fun-loving attitude (remember, most women list a fun guy as one of the most attractive qualities in a man so odds are the next girl you talk to will go CRAZY for your fun conversation.)

BONUS Confidence-Building Exercise:

The next time you find yourself with an opportunity to talk to a hot girl, start the conversation by focusing on FUN and SOCIAL topic using the questions I listed above.

For example, if you are in the line at Starbucks and a hot woman is standing next to you, you can start a FUN and SOCIAL topic by saying, “So, do you have anything FUN and EXCITING planned for tonight?”

Some of the best places to try this are:

• On the bus/transit sitting beside a girl
• At a bar or night club
• Shopping for groceries (standing in line, shopping beside her)

Give it a try!